Why I hate my husbands hobby

It is not that I actually hate his hobby, just that I hate how it affects me.......now my husband thinks I am selfish for my feelings but Ireally am not......here are some of the reasons I hate when he goes to his "club:

1) After working all day and not seeing him, he leaves and is gone untill 11pm or later......Sarah and I both miss him, and Sarah becomes quiete miserable at bed time.

2) if a problem comes up(and lately they always seem to) he is to far away to do anything, and he yells at me for calling him to try and get some help.

3) In order to get to his club he has to take my car, since his is a bomb, and that leaves me carless and dependant on other people.

4) I feel like I can't call to say hello, or just to get reassurance after a tough night, since I have been told that I am a nuisance, and that I do not give him any peace....so missing my husband is not an option apparently.

5) no matter how many times I confront him he spends way too much money on his models and other stuff, and he doesnt' ask me(or discuss it with me) when I spend any money I check with him first...and since money is tight, I think I deserve the same.

6) Sometimes it seems like his hobby and his club are much more a priorty than we are.........I know that isn't true but sometimes it feels like that.......

7) Okay I will admit some of it is jealousy, having giving up my own hobby(marital arts) to have more time at home and to save some money, I feel a little jealous (okay a lot) that he has not made a similar sacrifice.

8) I hate being alone at night.....( this is mostlly not the case tough as I have a friend who is normally here on the nights he goes otu, so this point is not really that valid.

Okay now that I have gotten all that out...and knowing my h usband will be reading it, and most likely take it as a personal attack, which it is nto....I simply needed to vent my feelings and frustrations....knowing full well that it would not change anything, and not expecting it to change anythign....all I am hoping for is some opinions, takig sides is fine...I just need to know if I really am being as unreasonable in my feelings, as my husband says I am.